The vanish pair test (recorded on two PSPs) now passes on both sides,
over the relay:
- From the Disconnect call, a console's PDP and PTP sends succeed and go
nowhere, and nothing reaches it.
- A PTP connection to a peer that has left the group fails with
DISCONNECTED after rexmt_int * rexmt_cnt. Relay sockets now get their
retry settings (and are zeroed), and an accepted one counts as
connected.
- Matching data to a peer that has left gets DATA_TIMEOUT after the
retransmissions instead of a DATA_ACK.
- The matching timeout for a silent peer is keepalive_int * init_count,
plus MATCHING_TIMEOUT_EXTRA_US (0) to tune for internet latency. It
was (keepalive + rexmt) * count + 500ms, later than a PSP's.
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
